God used Joseph and Pharoah to show what God had already planned: seven very abundant years and seven years of famine.
Joseph created a plan. God had skilled him in administration and leadership. Joseph knew exactly what to do because of the dreams and interpretation of those dreams.
Pharaoh put Joseph at the head of all Egypt. He started working the plan. After nine more years his unsuspecting brothers come down to Egypt to buy grain.
This is where we pick it up in Genesis 45. His brothers had come down to purchase grain so that the family could survive. Joseph had them exactly where he wanted them. He possessed a profound opportunity to compensate himself for all the pain he had experienced. But he didn’t . Why?
What does it take to forgive?
Honesty
Sovereignty
Equity - justice according to natural law or right
Genesis 45:3
And Joseph said to his brothers, “I am Joseph! Is my father still alive?” But his brothers could not answer him, for they were dismayed at his presence.
This is the perfect opportunity for Joseph to seek some repayment for all the pain but he chooses a different path.
Genesis 45:4-5
So Joseph said to his brothers, “Come near to me, please.” And they came near. And he said, “I am your brother, Joseph, whom you sold into Egypt. 5 And now do not be distressed or angry with yourselves because you sold me here, for God sent me before you to preserve life.
What does it take to forgive?
Joseph has come to a place of resolve on this issue of forgiveness. HOW? Honest boldface Truth. Joseph doesn’t sugar coat what he experienced.
And you, the victim of some atrocious behavior, need to be honest about the hurt that you have endured. Forgiveness means assessing the hurt! AND it means seeing the sovereign nature of God.
Honesty: you sold me here - He is honest about the pain; he tells the truth about the debt they owe him; he does not diminish the hurt.
This is the place where we each need to land. What is the honest truth about the pain, the debt, the hurt that we have suffered under someone else’s neglect. Whether that is intentional or unintentional, someone has hurt you. There is some kind of pain, trauma, loss of work, loss of enthusiasm . . . there is some kind of hurt.
One of the worst things to do is to try and gloss over what really happened to you. Honesty. Joseph is brutally honest with him. He says it like it is. “You sold me here.” This is what you did.
What does it take to forgive?
Sovereignty - “God sent me before you to preserve life.” (Genesis 45:5) God is sovereign: He is all-powerful, He is all knowing, He is Ever present everywhere, and He is all loving. Cognizant of Our Almighty Loving God, Joseph is empowered to utter a truth that triumphs over the pain by showing God’s even bigger purpose. “God sent me before you to preserve life.” (Genesis 45:5)
What life was God preserving? Was it only Joseph’s life? Our damaged lives and hurt feelings might want ONLY the victim to be rescued. But God thinks bigger. God’s sovereign love extends beyond the “Joseph hero” to all of humanity. God’s omniscience, omnipotence, omnipresence and All-loving nature extends to every man, woman and child.
The Egyptians will benefit from this plan. Jacob’s life is extended even though he has parental responsibility for the hurt of his other sons. Benjamin’s life, the other brothers’ lives, the servants, and on and on - God has such a strong love of life even for those who take life. His love endures forever.
The brothers were willing to kill Joseph - Yet God was willing to save them. This is Extreme. Why would God do this? How could God do this? Because God knows the depth of hurt in the human heart. Sin has messed up our human hearts to the point where we do inflict pain on each other. We are hurt and the natural impulse of our troubled hearts is to lash out at others. We create trails of pain and lives filled with debris and destruction.
Our Father in Heaven knows that His extreme willingness to help each polluted heart is the answer.
Genesis 45:6
For the famine has been in the land these two years, and there are yet five years in which there will be neither plowing nor harvest.
7 And God sent me before you to preserve for you a remnant on earth, and to keep alive for you many survivors. 8 So it was not you who sent me here, but God. He has made me a father to Pharaoh, and lord of all his house and ruler over all the land of Egypt.
Joseph, the favored son of Israel, was sent into Egypt by God’s love and God’s design in order to preserve life. We know a greater son, a perfect son, who was sent to a parched and dry world in order to preserve life. But not just temporal life - eternal life. Jesus God's own Son was sent into the world to save, to forgive, to remove the pain and to remove the need to retaliate for any hurts we have endured.
What does it take to forgive?
God forgives. . . here comes the “Equity”
God is honest about the pain. He goes through the pain of betrayal. He goes through the pain of denial and the loss of life and the unjust treatment, the abuse.
Equity = “justice according to natural law” (Merriam-Webster.com). In his full knowledge and with all power and with greater love than we can imagine, he knows this alone: his own gracious exhaustion under the honest hand of justice, will remove the grip of guilt and pain from humanity‘s throat.
And in equity he didn’t choose a form of justice that was quick and painless. He didn’t choose lethal injection or a bullet to the head. That was too quick. The pain would be too limited. Because God had to pick an implement of justice that, in equity, equals the pain inflicted on his holy, righteous divinity, he picked the cross. And then he placed himself in the criminal's seat to receive that judgment.
In a few minutes we will see the words, “forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors“ (The Lord’s Prayer). That’s speaking about equity. That’s speaking about justice that’s already been carried out. Do we see the debt we owe God? If we are not aware of the pain we daily inflict on His divine perfection, then we downplay and sugarcoat our own sin.
But let’s be honest, we are more inclined to focus on the pain by which our character has been impaled. We are more blind to God's pain but often demand that another would suffer for the wrongs experienced by our humanity - wrongs to our human self!
And that’s where God brings in the cross and his son, whom He loves: Jesus. The only way God can forgive me my debt is because the debt that I owe him gets paid at the cross.
He will not diminish or downplay the pain that has been suffered by him; the cross is a vivid reminder that each of my sins inflicts horrible pain. And in his honesty, in his sovereignty and in his equity all has been paid by Christ Jesus the perfect son.